Who Is Going to Save You? The Courage to Choose Yourself By Renia Bigham (Coach Queenie B), with Dr. Pat Baccili There’s a question that can shake you awake if you’re willing to really sit with it: Who is going to save you? This episode hit deeply for me—because I’ve lived that question. I know what it’s like to look outside of myself for answers, for rescue, for relief. For a long time, I believed something—or someone—else would come along and pull me out of the hard places.