Do you, do what feels good/best to you, not what others say is best for you!
Success in anything is determined by you, not what others say or how they say it should be done, do what feels good to you! Part of getting to know who you are is knowing what is best for you because you've experienced it, you know how it feels, so on and so forth. No one knows you the way you know yourself. People can have ideas of who you are, project onto you who they think you should be but no matter what they don't truly know you, the true, authentic you even if they've actually done their best to get to know you simply because you are still getting to know yourself, which is amazing and limitless!
Much love Family, Have an amazing week!